For some Nice Guy it is, but for many is much more even unconscious process of thinking that in order to be liked and loved and get their needs met, they have to find a way to become what they think other people want them to be.īrett McKay: So, basically a people pleaser, I think?ĭr. Now, this is might even be a conscious thought process. Glover: Well, fundamentally, the Nice Guy doesn’t believe he is okay just as he is. Glover: Thanks Brett, good to be here.īrett McKay: Well, Dr. in American Family Therapy and he says he is recovering Nice Guy himself and has spent thousands of hours helping other men recovering from the Nice Guy syndrome. Glover and he is the author of the book in ‘No More Mr. Well, our guest today has written a book been about this topic and his name is Dr. reliable never get the raise or the promotion? Now, we’ve all heard the phrase ‘Nice Guys finish last’ right, but why is that? Why do man whose female friends telling that he’d be a great catch for some girl never get a date on Friday night? Why is the guy that never rocks the boat at work and is pretty much Mr. Read the Transcriptīrett McKay: Brett McKay here and welcome to another episode of The Art of Manliness podcast. Subscribe to the podcast in the media player of your choice.

Listen to the episode on a separate page. Glover’s book and his work, check out Listen to the Podcast! (And don’t forget to leave us a review!) We discuss the attributes of these Nice Guys, why there’s been a proliferation of Nice Guys during the past 30 years, and what men can do to beat the Nice Guy Syndrome and get more out of life.įor more info about Dr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan For Getting What You Want In Love, Sex, and Life. Robert Glover, author of the book No More Mr. Let go let life happen.We’ve all heard the phrase “Nice guys finish last,” right? Why is that? Why do the men whose female friends tell them they’re a great catch never have a date come Friday night? Why does the guy who never rocks the boat at work get passed over for the promotion? To answer these questions, we talked to Dr. There are no mistakes, only learning experiences. If you are not having fun, something is wrong. 27Be willing to let go of what you have so you can get what you want. 23Think 'abundance.' 24Face difficult situations and conflict head on. 21Accept the consequences of your actions. Decide what feels right to you, then do it.

17Remove yourself from a bad situation instead of waiting for the situation to change. 13If you are an adult, you are old enough to make your own rules. 11Learn to say 'no.' 12Don't make excuses. 9If what you are doing isn't working, try something different. 7You are the only person on this planet responsible for your needs, wants, and happiness. 6If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always got. 4No matter what happens, you will handle it. Every time you settle, you get exactly what you settled for.

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